Holla Monday?
When Last did you help someone without expecting something in return? There's this inner joy that comes with selflessly proffering a solution to one's problem - being an answer to one's prayer. This used to be a big deal for me but recently, I do things for people and don't expect anything in return. I agree to help out, put my heart to it, act like I'm being paid for it, and learn from it. Their heartfelt "thank you" is enough pay for whatever good deed I have done. In helping out, you might be taken advantage of. Have you ever felt used? You know that most people want to be with you not because they really like you but because of what you can do for them. The moment the benefits attached to being with you is off, you just see the relationship slide down the drain. Take for instance, you help someone with a task all the time, then once, twice, thrice you don't do it because for one reason or another, you're indisposed, most of the time, they ...